Monday, November 30, 2015

Forgiveness In Different Religions

Growing up as a Christian a lot of my beliefs revolve around God and having a forgiving spirit. In my opinion we all have committed a sin . Majority of the world religions teaches forgiveness although it may be little different, but all them want you to open your heart and let go of the past. It all leads to showing guidance for the practice of forgiveness.  In Christianity forgiveness is such an important role in spiritual life.  The Lord’s Prayer exemplifies forgiveness in the Christianity Community:
  





The Lord's Prayer Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us, and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever and ever. Amen.

 

When Jesus was on the cross he says: "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do"(Luke 23:34), In the Bible Jesus teaches us that we are supposed to forgive unconditionally no matter what. He wants us to love our enemies and turn the other cheek (Matthew 5:9 and Luke 6:27-31). 

 

Growing up as a Christian a lot of my beliefs revolve around God and having a forgiving spirit. In my opinion we all have committed a sin . Majority of the world religions teaches forgiveness although it may be little different, but all them want you to open your heart and let go of the past. It all leads to showing guidance for the practice of forgiveness.  In Christianity forgiveness is such an important role in spiritual life.  The Lord’s Prayer exemplifies forgiveness in the Christianity Community:

 
 
 

 


 
  Forgiveness in Judaism:


In Judaism if a person has wronged someone, or caused any harm to them then he, or she needs apologize. The person who is wrong is then bound to forgive the person. In Judaism you are supposed to ask the person for forgiveness three times.  Each time you ask them you have to be sincere and real. After you have asked for forgiveness you, then God hears your prayer and forgives you for your sin. If the person does not forgive you then they are liable for the sin. If you sincerely ask for forgiveness and repent then that sin is wiped away by God and forgiven by him. If you asked for forgiveness and you repeat the same sin, then it is not true repentance.  Jewish religion and Christianity has a lot in common they say Christianity originated from Judaism.
 

Forgiveness in Islam:

Forgiveness is important in Islam. Their followers (Muslims) turn to Allah 24/7 for forgiveness for their sins. When Muslims turn to Allah and ask for forgiveness for their sins, they learn humility. They see humans as weak individuals, so that means they feel like we will all be guilty of something, or be guilty of sinning. In the Islam religion Allah wants his people to repent for their sins and repent. In the Islam religion they put a lot emphases on caring for one another so, asking for forgiveness from someone is important in their religion. In their religion the pray from themselves and they pray for others, so they go to Allah for answers.

Forgiveness in Buddhism:  
Where does Buddhism Stand when it comes to forgiving one another??



Buddha feels like we should always forgive and keep forgive one another no matter what. There are scriptures on Forgiving from the teachings of Buddha from many years ago. He teaches an importance of having a peaceful mind and a peaceful way of living. Forgiveness is an important step to achieve a peaceful state of mind. Buddhist don't believe in God created the universe. They don't feel like God so, don't see him as the creator to punish, or forgive someone. They teach importance if forgiving yourself as well as forgiving others. Buddhist believe that if you are unforgiving it gives rise to suffering If you can't forgive you are unable to free yourself from hate. According to the Dhammapada, “Those who attempt to conquer hatred by hatred are like warriors who take weapons to overcome others who bear arms. This does not end hatred, but gives it room to grow."  They believe that forgiveness is a path to a better life. They believe in forgiving and meditation. With meditation you are receiving a inner peace and it helps mentally.

 


References:
Buddhists' Beliefs of Forgiveness." People. N.p., n.d. Web. 02 Dec. 2015. http://people.opposingviews.com/buddhists-beliefs-forgiveness-3445.html

Wikipedia. Wikimedia Foundation, n.d. Web. 04 Dec. 2015.    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forgiveness                     

 
 

Sunday, November 22, 2015

How Do You Forgive Someone? Why should You Forgive?



How do you forgive someone? Why should you Forgive?


 

       Deciding to forgive someone is extremely powerful. It is letting go the anger and the retaliation.  One of the first steps of forgiving is getting past yourself.  Removing the hurt, pain, and the spirit of wanting to pay them back for what he, or she did. It is really easy to build up walls and shut them out, but you only end up keeping yourself prisoner. A lot of the times we end up thinking about what that person did to you over and over in our mind. We then tell ourselves that it’s ok to be bottled with hate and anger.  When you decide to let go and forgive I think it is something that you have remind yourself about daily and hourly.  Forgiving can be a challenge and sometimes the old feelings that you thought you put away can come back up and stir up old feelings. Forgiveness doesn’t mean that you have to forget what was done to you. Accept what was done to you, that doesn’t necessarily means brush it off like it was nothing the best thing to do is face it head on. For some people it’s not easy to just to open up, but you will feel a lot better once it is done. I know forgiving is hard for me so I understand. Remember the whole point of forgiving is letting go all the anger and bitterness. Sometimes carrying around all that anger causes stress and health issues on ourselves. The person who did you wrong may not even know they did wrong, so you should tell them and hear them out.

 

Saturday, November 21, 2015

What is Forgiveness?


What is forgiveness? According to Webster,” It is the act of forgiving someone or something”[i]. I define forgiveness as making peace with someone, or something. Forgiveness is one of the most important issues that everyone will face in their life. Everyone has been hurt by someone in their life at one point, or another.  Plenty of people and religions see forgiveness as decision to let go of grievances and not seek revenge. Forgiveness can affect your well-being. It is one of the greatest power a human can possess. If   forgiveness could be a secret potion that could be bottled up and sold it would save a lot of heart-break in the world. What does it mean to really forgive someone? How do you forgive someone? These are the questions that come to one’s mind when you discuss the topic of forgiveness. Majority of the world religions teaches forgiveness although it may differ, it stills uses the same ingredients:  Love, open heart, acceptance, peace, prayer, strength, tears, and time. According to Bishop Desmond Tutu of South Africa, “To forgive is not just to be Altruistic. “It is the best form of self of self-interest. It is also a process that does not exclude hatred and anger. “These emotions are all a part of being human”. “You should never hate yourself for hating others who do terrible things: the depth of your love is shown by the extent of your anger”. Bishop Desmond Tutu then says in his article, “However, when I talk of forgiveness I mean the belief that you can come out the other side a better person”.” A better person than the one being consumed by anger and hatred. “Remaining in the state locks you in a state of victimhood, making you almost dependent on the perpetrator”. “You can move on, and you can even help the perpetrator to become a better person too”. “If you forgive someone the person you are forgiving should acknowledge their part in it as well”[ii].

 



[i] Merriam-Webster. Merriam-Webster, n.d. Web. 04 Dec. 2015. http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/forgiveness
 
[ii] “Desmond Tutu on Forgiveness”. Write Spirit”. N.p.,n.d,  Web. 04 Dec 2015. http://www.writespirit.net/authors/desmond-tutu/desmond-tutu-on-forgiveness/